Paul E. Abdilla

July 22, 1967 - February 26, 2021

Paul E. Abdilla, 53 years old, passed away on Friday, February 26, 2021 at his home in Toms River surrounded by his loving family. Born in Queens, NY. Paul worked as a manager of safety and compliance for Perferred Freezer Services Inc./Lineage Logistics in Jersey City, NJ. Surviving are his wife Lisa; daughters Victoria and Kaitlyn; brothers Kevin and Gary Abdilla. Predeceased by his parents, Jerome and Catherine Abdilla. Paul is also survived by his father and mother-in-law; Eugene and Madeline Napolitano; his brother’s and sister in laws, aunts, uncles, cousins, and his 13 nieces and nephews. Growing up he enjoyed playing baseball and spending time with his brothers. He was a huge Met and Giant fan. He loved listening to music and going to concerts, especially Bruce Springsteen and The Grateful Dead. He met the love of his life in Virginia Beach on July 4th1989 and married her on October 4th 1992. During 28 amazing years married they had 2 beautiful daughters and priceless memories. Paul loved spending time with his family whether a backyard BBQ, trips to Disney and Aruba, or a late night spent by the fire. Paul’s infectious laugh is something that will bring a smile to our faces until the end of time. Although our time together on this earth was short, Paul will forever be in our hearts. ……“Now the world is filled with many wonders under the passing sun, but sometimes something comes along and its for sure the only one, the Mona Lisa, the David, the Sistine Chapel, Jesus, Mary and Joe….. But when they built you BROTHER….they broke the mold.” Visiting will be Monday, March 1, 2021 from 5:00 PM - 8:00 PM at the Silverton Memorial Funeral Home, 2482 Church Rd., Toms River. A funeral mass will be held on Tuesday, March 2 at St. Maximilian Kolbe RC Church at 12:00 PM. Cremation will be private.