John D. Frisoli III

December 31, 1967 - February 11, 2021

On Thursday, February 11th, 2021, John D. Frisoli lll, loving father, brother and boyfriend passed away suddenly at Community Medical Center, at the age of 53. John was born in New York and grew up in Short Hills, where he attended Millburn High School. John eventually married and had a beautiful daughter, Charlotte, who was the apple of his eye. His love for his daughter was beyond measure and his greatest accomplishment. John is survived by his sister, Pamela Frisoli from Annandale, NJ, his Aunt Diane from Annandale, NJ, his daughter, Charlotte Frisoli, aged 14, from Wayne, NJ, and his loving partner Helen Fleming from Toms River, NJ. John was preceded in death by his father John, and his mother, Cynthia. John was a big guy with an even bigger heart, who lived each day to its fullest. He had a passion for cars and over the years bought and sold many, but his most beloved car was the one which had belonged to his father, a candy apple red Ferrari, which he proudly and lovingly took care of, restoring it to its former glory. He also loved boats, having one appropriately named the “One Time Around”. Summer was his favorite season, where he could drink in all his favorite things, from boating and jet skiing, to spending time with his daughter, family and friends at the beach and at his house on the bay. He always dreamed of being on the water, it brought John so much joy when he bought his house on the bay 5 years ago. He loved nothing more then entertaining and sharing with friends. He was generous, easy going and loved seeing people have a good time. During many of those summers together, you would often hear him ask, “who wants to go for a sunset cruise on the boat?” He loved taking people out to watch the sunset over the water… he was in his element at the helm of his boat, drink in hand, surrounded by family and friends. Life was good on the water, he was happy there. But his greatest love, was his daughter Charlotte. He was devoted to her and loved her unconditionally, there wasn’t much he wouldn’t do for her. His face would light up when they spoke and when he saw her, he would swallow her up in one of his huge bear hugs. You could feel his happiness when she was around. Charlotte and her Dad made many memories together...boat rides, cruising in his cars, steaks on the grill, pac-man show downs, driving lessons, dancing to Michael Jackson in the kitchen and so much more. Rest In Peace my dear brother, father, and friend. Our world will never be the same without you….smell the ocean air and open up the boat full throttle, drive it fast into the sunset, because you only get one time around. Funeral services for John will be held at Silverton Memorial Funeral Home in Toms River, NJ, 2482 Church Rd. Visiting will be Wednesday, February 17, 2021 from 10:30 am until 12:30pm at the Silverton Memorial Funeral Home 2482 Church Rd., Toms River. A funeral service will begin at 12:30 PM at the funeral home, with the interment to follow at Fairview Cemetery in Westfield, NJ. Flowers may be sent directly to Silverton Memorial Funeral Home.